How to Really, Really, REALLY, REALLY LOVE Yourself right now!!!

HELLO!!!
Long time no write ... on here.. no judgement, but it's good to be back...
Why is it that we have all the advice in the world for others and know how to take care of everything else but we feel drained? Do you feel drained? Are you happy? What really is making you unhappy at this moment??

HERE ARE THE TIPS:

1. STOP ALL JUDGEMENTS:

STOP JUDGING all the wrongs in your life right now!!! Spend 10 minutes alone, in front of mirror & Ask What would make you happy, then DO IT!!!
I said stop judging! I know the second you read that, your own mind couldn't stop wrapping your head around that! When was the last time you actually did something that made you happy? and had a happy outcome. Not some instant gratification that left you feeling bad later.

2. GO OUTDOORS:

It is not that hard right now to spend some time outside. The sun is still out and about, warming up nature and the people in its vast rays of SHINE! GO OUT and GRAB SOME! It's also a good source of VITAMIN D!
When you go outside, it actually helps you clear your auras. Why you ask? Because there are fairies outside!! WOO Woo! and the fairies are ....NATURE ANGELS!!! Take a brisk walk. Go to the beach. Walk during your lunch breaks. Watch the sunset. Ride your bike, put air in your times first (if it's been that long for you). You will automatically begin to feel your spirits lifting!! PROMISE!!!


3. CALL ON YOUR ANGELS:

"Archangel Jophiel, Please help me beautify my thoughts. Help me clear up any space that is holding pent up energy. Send me your guidance to release all this clutter of energy, space, time and all else that is holding me back from Really and truly #LOVING myself".
You may also call on your guardian angels, Archangel Michael, and Raphael to help. :)

4.  WRITE A LETTER:

Write a letter to yourself, the part of you that is past or future, the part of you that knows what you are capable of in this lifetime! That knows your limitations, your successes, your story, how AMAZING and AWESOME YOU ARE! What you are proud of and what you have accomplished. You have no failures, only lessons! You could even write this and mail it to yourself!!!

5. KEEP A GRATITUDE JOURNAL:]

Every night or morning, say what you are grateful for. Heavens, do this both in the morning and at night!! The LIMITS are ENDLESS when you are grateful. It opens up for the UNIVERSE, God, Creator, ANGELS, GUIDES, ALL THAT IS, to bring you in physical form and energetically....MORE BLESSINGS!! How awesome is THAT!!!?

I kept this short because well, Time is Precious and I want you to get started. MUCH LOVE!
Sending Angels,
Ms. Xochi
Creating Angelic Experiences
www.msxochi.com
949.ANGEL44

Insanity is Knocking at the Door

The bills that I need to make sure are paid,make sure I am prepared for my workshop, people I didn't call, people who haven't called me back, the emails I haven't responded to yet, the list goes on and on. I feel crazy bring pulled in so many directions. Knowing that I have taken on way too much as far as responsibilities are concerned....that's what mny emotions say. While my type A personality and OCD perfectionist inside me cheers me on and knows I can handle so much more. Meanwhile, my angels are telling me to relax, trust that everything is happening in Divine Timing and to balance my life by taking a nice ride on my bike on the beach. I don't know about you but I opted for the beach bike cruise.
When I feel the breeze on my face caressing my hair, inhaling the abundant air God has supplied, being grateful for this moment in time & space, I am able to clear out the drama my mind loves to create. How many times do we as humans, love to stay in this stress? Yes we have things to do, people to call, places to go, but what about you? Who takes care of you? Who makes sure you are supported, eat enough vegetables, drink enough water, play outside, and reminds you that nothing is perfect.....you are perfect just the way you are now! The Bruno Mars song plays in my head.
The moment your body feels tired, it's talking to you! When you need a nap, take a 5 minute snoozer, you will feel better! When you are stressed, STEP AWAY FROM YOUR LIFE! And by this I mean, change up your routine, go for a walk, stand up & stretch, call a loved one... breathe. There are so many choices in one day and we are so good at beating ourselves up over the smallest things. Life doesn't need to feel so overwhelming. You are doing the best you can and give yourself a high five for being where you are. Don't look at what you haven't accomplished, notice how far you've come. So what if it's not perfect or the way you planned. What's important is you are alive. You had the experience(s). Rejoice! You got another day to live to try again maybe, more time ~ to tell the people you love how you feel.
I am still on my beach cruise (taking a moment to write this) I felt compelled to share my thoughts with you and this picture.
I'm not even done taking my break, more like celebrating my life (I don't always wait for my bday), and I received news that a few things I was worried about have worked themselves out already. All I needed to do was step away from my routine. Can you do the same? Don't do the same things over and over again in the same way, expecting different results....that's the definition of insanity. Trust everything will work out in the best possible situation for everyone involved.
Sending angels.

Who's Rooting In Your Corner?

How do you know when you have done the right thing? Especially when it comes to choosing your life purpose? I recently posted a blog and sent an actual email with the same information of me Coming out of the Closet. It talks about me really stepping into my role and how I stumbled upon figuring out what I am supposed to do on this earthly sojourn.


Before I sent this email I had had this revelation and told my parents about it. More so my mother than anybody. I know that in today's day and age, and even in the generations before mine, talking to one's parents is not always the easiest thing. Some children never even have profound conversations with their parents. Mostly it's because of respect or the age difference.


Fortunately in this lifetime I have manifested amazing and supportive parents. I know no one, including myself, is perfect. I strive for perfection at times and often fall very short of it. As a young woman growing up one realizes at different phases in life, that our parents fall short as well.  And that's OK!


I remember as a little girl hearing about an adult falling down. I could not stop laughing!
(Note: The person was not injured) It just seemed so odd and absurd! An adult!? Falling down?! Well I've NEVER! (Remember I was a little girl).


There have many times that I feel my parents have disappointed me, that I have been disillusioned. Perhaps because they didn't get things right the first time, don't know everything that I want them to know, don't know how to act, or don't say what I want to hear. That's the reality a child goes through at some point in their lives when it comes to their parents. It's a bit life altering, some events more challenging than others.  So I understand and know what it feels like to want to blame my parents for many things gone wrong in my life. Key Words are "Want to blame".


The truth is, I do not blame my parents for anything. Everything happens exactly as it was meant to happen. and that in itself is perfection. and knowing that my parents in this lifetime are a blessing, I give thanks. I am grateful because not many parents are even around their children's lives as adults. I am grateful because my parents actually tell me they love me, often! Yes, I know, I am blessed! and I am truly grateful.


So why this blog? Why this rant about parents and how mine are so supportive? It's important to have people surround you that are supportive. If they are not parents, they can be aunts, uncles, siblings, cousins, neighbors, friends, colleagues, co+workers, children, and the like, the point is to have a SUPPORT group. Who is it that you hang out with, spend most of your time with? To whom do you go for advice? A shoulder to cry on? A helping hand? Or when you need a nice swift kick in the ***!?


To whom do you describe your dreams? Who listens to your goals? Who believes in you? EVEN when You have lost faith in yourself?


Luckily for me my parents believe in me. They might not have always known what exactly I do, or what my plan is but their unconditional love has shined through.

It's the moment when: after I tell my mom my aspirations, she tells me that her life has changed because of what I have taught her. That moment, those words alone, besides bringing tears to my eyes, really confirmed why I am here.

Of course there are other people in my life, but today, for whom are you grateful? Observe the people around you and make sure that you have a team of cheerleaders! and if you don't, then FIND Your PEOPLE! You do have your angels! You can ask your Angels to help you connect with amazing, loving, honest, (put your own adjectives in), ..... supportive people. ***REMEMBER***: You can always start with yourself!

TRANSCENDING

TRUST! TRUST! TRUST!

I was having doubts in my life, as a normal human being. I remembered a woman I admire saying she would go to a Trapeze class often. It helps one get out of overanalyzing. A few days after this memory, I noticed a special deal for a Trapeze class online.... Could this be a sign? (I thought to myself)...
YES!!!


It was affordable, so I signed up!
I arrived barely on time and as I was putting on all these contraptions around my body, I realized the instructor was already going through the steps while on the trapeze! This all happened within the first five minutes of being there! I was nervous. At this point my SUPER analytical side came out and I asked the instructor to go over the steps once again.


Mind you, this is my first time doing this and they just say something to the following effect:

"You will get on the bar, put your feet up on the bar, release your hands, put them back on, take your feet off the bar, and then let your hands go as you gravitate onto the net."


HA HA ... uhmmm .... Yeah, I asked for a third explanation. Oh no, the instructor said, "your body will just do it, don't think about it too much."


Thank Goodness I was not the first person to go on the trapeze. So I have to clasp the harness on my body to some other straps hanging from who knows where, put some chalk on my hands (to make sure I can grasp the trapeze bar), climb up this TALL ladder, and that's before I get to the Trapeze!


Ok so up I go, I am beginning to feel a bit nauseous. It seems that the higher I go, the more dizzy and faint I am feeling. I am thinking to myself... what in the world am I doing?!? It's very similar to when you are going on a big roller coaster for your first time; and a feeling of "I don't know if I can handle this, or did I bite off more than I can chew?"


As I get to the top, I actually feel physically weak! I really want to pass out now. I remember words of advice to say how I feel three times. "I am scared, I am scared, I am scared". Then right after I said "I am safe. I am safe. I am safe." Miraculously, I wasn't as scared and no longer felt the need to faint.  ALLELUIA!


I got ready and held on for my dear life!! literally! As the helper let go of my harness, and I jumped into the air holding on to only the trapeze bar, I felt numb.


The instructor on earth (ha) tells me how to maneuver my body: "legs up! Hands down! Hands up, Legs down! Release!" It is the only thing I could hear while transcending amidst the air.


I really had to trust this net was going to catch me as I was suspended between gravity, the air and earth, I realized that I had let go. Let go of expectations, I trusted! Trusted Universe would provide in some way, shape or form.  And as I landed gracefully on the net, I laid still for a few seconds to let my soul reconnect with my body. I could not stop shaking. I couldn't believe my body just did some crazy moves it had never done before.


It really was amazing that not going over the steps again and again would help me. I would have been in my head too much.

Sometimes in life, we feel there is no net in life to catch us, that if we are too scared, faint, nauseous, or whatever your ego & body tells you, we can just back out. That is true! You can back out!      ...

BUT WHY WOULD YOU!

Life is too short to be scared, to wonder if your life would be different had you done X, Y, and Z.  Live Today, for tomorrow is not promised and today is a PRESENT.


Stay tuned for my next adventure .... Surfing! yes, this seems scary to me!

When Was The Last Time You Felt Like A Child Having Fun?

When was the last time you had fun? Lived carefree? and played in the sand? or enjoyed something you did when you were a child? ..... WHY HAS IT BEEN SO LONG???

I'm at a park recently, it's the beginning of summer. My nine year old cousin asks me if we can stay at the park so she can play on the swings. I thought the answer would be NO right away. Still contemplating the question and everything I had planned to do, I thought a few minutes wouldn't hurt.

As she ran off, I found myself thinking what am I going to do?? It then hit me! My inner child really began nudging me.... "let's get on the swing!" HA HA HAHA my adult self laughed. I couldn't possibly want to get on a swing. Then something happened. My inner child really dug down deep and triggered memories that I hadn't thought of in years!
Just thinking of how much I use to LOVE the swings! I remembered that the minute I would set foot at the park, I would BOLT to the swing to make sure I had one! I remembered at a family event when I was probably 11, I sent a cousin of mine to run and grab me a swing so that by the time I got there, I wouldn't have to wait until someone was done. Oh yeah! I was a Queen of Swings! oh wait I still am. ha ha

The feeling of being a child, of finding the JOY in something so simple as swinging in a playground, was something I forgot. and it really did bring tears to my eyes. Had I, me, crossed the into the world of being an adult?!!!? So serious and BORING?!!! ahhh!!! Forgetting what it felt like to play? To run around and live carefree? To feel the breeze in my hair and on my face? To feel as if I am flying everytime the swing goes forward?

OH NO!!! I was an adult! It hit me! I had to be reminded, by my inner child, what it felt like to have fun at the park! HOW SAD!!!  and what was even MORE sad, it took me a LONG time to remember when the last time I was on a swing.... It was 10 years ago!!! a WHOLE DECADE without swings! No wonder I had a hard time finding my happiness! There hadn't been playgrounds in my life! Me.... 10 years ago....

Being an adult with or without children, doesn't mean you have to live life so seriously, so I have remembered. I have been on the swings a few more times since then. I stop and smell the flowers more often. I have done some cartwheels too!

Find some time today, this week, to allow your inner child take over your body and enjoy something you haven't in over 10, 20, 30, 50 years, or more! Love yourself to every extent and KNOW that you deserve this LAUGHTER and FUN! I send you many angels! and fairies to help you get out of the serious mode!

SO I've had a rough day, more like a few rough moments in the past month! BUT who hasn't. Between reading T. Harv Eker's, Secrets of a Millionaire Mind, not complaining and TRUSTING God, Universe and my angels that Everything happens for a reason and in Divine Timing.... I have emotional moments.
I was talking to a prospective client today and I came up with a simple:

5 STEPS HOW TO STOP & REVERSE OVERWHELM

There are times in our daily lives where we feel so rushed, stressed, and disconnected that we are literally inviting more negative energy into our world. The following is the quickest way to actually stop this downward spiral pattern so that you can get back to a higher energy and complete your daily tasks without ... going crazy... I mean easily & effortlessly. :)

1. STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING! (take a moment to reset) 
1. If you are driving, pull over!
2. If you are with others, excuse yourself & find a quiet place... YES, even if it's the bathroom!
2. BREATHE DEEPLY (Get your mind & body into the present)
1. Speak out loud what you see, & feel NOW
1. I see a blue car
2. I feel the steering wheel.
2. Keep breathing deeply 3 to 10 times.
3. By this time your mind has taken over your future and you are only focusing on negativity so CHANGE THAT CHANNEL and TUNE INTO DIVINITY!
3. CALL ON YOUR ANGELS (Keep breathing deeply so they can connect)
1. Because we have free will, the angels can only intervene in emergency situations, thus, ASK!
2. Clearly state: "Angels give me clear signs that you are with me right now; and/or guide me to the next step."
3. Keep breathing deeply and be open to receiving signs NOW!
1. **ANGELS that are good to call on when stressed & overwhelmed:
1. Archangel Michael "Please cut any chords to situations and to people that do not serve me a purpose any longer"
2. Archangel Raphael "Please heal me in mind, body and spirit"
3. Archangel Jophiel "Please beautify my thoughts"
4. IF YOU ARE STILL OVERWHELMED (Keep breathing deeply. YES, they are still working on you)
1. List 10 things for which you are REALLY Grateful!
1. My car, job, a home, a place to live, the money I do have in my bank account, the money that is coming to me, my family, my children, my hands, my feet, my capability to hear, to see, to feel, to be ALIVE, etc.... C'mon work with me here! ;)
2. Be Clear & Honest with your list! (see examples above)
3. FEEL the LOVE for that which you are grateful! REALLY!
4. SMILE
5. IN DESPERATE MEASURES... IF YOU ARE STILL IN YOUR PITY PARTY OF 1...
1. Please if you have not done so by now, separate yourself from everyone & anyone as you are now what I call an "Energy Sucking Vampire"
2. Volunteer where there are people, less fortunate than YOUR situation! and help those less fortunate. THIS helps you realize there REALLY are others in a situation worse than YOU!

START OVER if needed! Cutting corners only cheats you, your capability to REALLY shine, and get back to YOUR Magnificent SELF!
You are going through this difficult time because this is a lesson! This is an opportunity for growth. I know it seems hard but it's what you do NOW, in these moments, that Define who you really are!

SO WHO DO YOU WANT TO BE? ... Signing off for now... Miss Xochi, Creating Angelic Experiences. www.lxavalos.com <3 <3 Sending you all Love & Angels.

Ask, Trust & Expect! Part I

How to Manifest.... I began manifesting since before I knew what exactly it was. I remember being a child and wishing for certain things to happen... I mean REALLY wishing and praying and hoping and dreaming and saying things like: ok I will pray every night and share with my little brother all the time if I can just have this one Barbie or game or whatever I wanted for Christmas! Lol. I Know! Like I Know that I am not only one who would do this.
And now in my 30's I haven't mastered the art of bringing everything that I want into fruition, but I am definitely living an AMAZING life. One that I have co-created with my Creator, God, Universe/Goddess/Your fancy.
And this is for a couple reasons. One being that I don't really want what I think I want. For example, I've wanted to marry a man that I was dating or my boyfriend. Then, years later or months, I find out he's a loser or in better terms he has issues I do not want to bring into my life. He could have never followed his dreams oright have been close minded. Whatever the case, he was meant to be with someone else.
Second: what I think I want is not really what is meant for me to have. Have you ever thought .... what you are thinking isn't big enough? Or how the outcome is unforeseen and could've been the worst decision ever?!  I have now learned and realized that what I wish for & does not come through, is NOT meant to be for me. This goes for jobs, dating, trips and more. Instead of getting upset if I just trust and put my faith in knowing their is something better, a better outcome than I could even imagine, it DOES come.
...stay tuned.